Recently, some of my classmates areconfused and disappointed because they found that their gain is not equal totheir pain. Concerning this problem, what I can say is, “just try your best”.
最近，我的一些同学感到迷茫，绝望，因为他们发现他们所得到的与所付出的并不相等。对于这个问题，我只能说: “竭尽全力去做吧”.
Life is not fair. We always say that, “nopain, no gain”, but we have to know another one—the gain is not always equal tothe pain. Therefore, if you want to gain something, just try your best to doit, and do not count what you have pain. If you always count the time and theeffort you spend in it, you will unconsciously have some expect in your mind. Onceyou find that your gain does not reach your expect, your confusion anddisappointment will come into being.
生活是不公平的。我们常常说；“没有付出，就没有收获”，但是我们还有知道另外一点——收获并不总是和付出相等的。因此，如果你想要获得某些东西，那就竭尽全力去做，并且不要计算付出了多少。如果你总是计算你花费了多少时间和精力，你就会在心里有所期望。一旦你发现你所获得的没有达到你心里的期望值，你就会感到迷惑，感到失望。
Of course, most of us would feel confusedand disappointed when we meet with difficulty or setback, but it should notkeep for a long time. Our life is limited, and we need to seize the chance to restartafter experiencing setback instead of indulge ourselves in negative moods andabandon ourselves so that we still have chances to achieve our goals and besuccessful.
当然，遇到困难和挫折时，我们大多数人都会感到迷惑和失望，但是这种状态不应该持续太久。我们的生命是有限的，因此在经历了挫折之后，我们必须抓住机会重新开始，而不是沉迷于消极情绪中自暴自弃，这样我们才有机会实现我们的目标，走向成功。
Therefore, just try your best. Try you bestto do everything you value, and you will gain what you want some days andwithout any regret.
因此，竭尽全力去做吧。竭尽全力去做每一件你认为重要的事情，总有一天你会得到你想要的东西，并且毫无遗憾！
行善需谨慎 Be careful of being Nice
虎妈式教育还是羊妈式教育？Tiger Mother or Sheep Mother?